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one needs reassurance. one needs space. Then the cycle takes over.

closeness feels different
on both sides.

Attune is built for this dynamic specifically.
At your worst moment

The texts, the silence, the overthinking, the shutting down —
attune helps you make sense of what's happening underneath.

for the moments you don't know
how to explain yourself.

attune interrupts the spiral before it costs you time
Relational injuries need relational healingWorks even if your partner never downloads it

Grace already knows
the dynamic.

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Grace
your relationship companion
* Works even if your partner never downloads it.
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The Pattern

You've read the articles.
You know the theory.
The cycle still doesn't stop.

01
Too much. Not enough. Never quite right.

You're not hard to love. You're someone who learned that love wasn't safe to trust. That can change.

02
The internet gives you labels, not answers

Anxious. Avoidant. Disorganized. You know the words. Knowing them hasn't made the fights shorter or the silence less unbearable.

03
Therapy has a 6-week waitlist

And when you finally get in, one hour a week isn't enough to process what's happening in real time — in the middle of a fight, at 2am.

04
You're exhausted from explaining yourself

To partners. To friends. To yourself. You want someone to talk to who actually gets the dynamic — without you having to educate them first.

Attune is built for anxious-avoidant relationships. If you're caught in the push-pull cycle — chasing when they withdraw, shutting down when they get close — this is for you.

“What if you had a companion that could be there at 2am, in the middle of the spiral — and actually understand what's happening?”

That's what attune is for.
Fix the MESSage!

you want them to understand.what they'll read isn't always what you meant.

Fix the MESSage! is like a mirror calibrated to the move you're making right now. It reads what your message is doing — to you, and to the person on the other end — then gives you three versions that actually land. you pick.

Most people find out how their message landed after. This is the before.

Fix the MESSage!
Fix your message before you send it
reply mode
why don't you ever call or text by yourself before I do?
Fixing your reply
Reply Options
Option 1 — Direct
“I will text you when I get a break. I'm not avoiding you — just swamped right now.”
Option 2 — Warm
“I know you're waiting to hear from me. I'm tied up for a bit, but I'll reach out as soon as I can. Promise.”
Option 3 — Honest
“I'm busy right now, but I want to talk to you. I'll message you in a couple hours.”
Grace Remembers

She carries the context.
You just talk.

Most apps forget you the moment the tab closes. Grace doesn't.
She builds a map of your dynamic over time — what's shifted, what keeps coming back. So when you come back at 2am mid-spiral, she already knows. You don't explain. You just talk.

Grace memory index
Tracks your behaviour
Learns your language
Remembers the arc
No re-explaining
Private by default
You never start over.
Why Attune
01
No labels. No diagnoses.

Attune doesn't put you in a box. It meets you where you are — in the specific, messy reality of your dynamic — and works from there.

02
Available when the spiral hits

At 11pm when you've just sent a text you regret. After an argument where you shut down. Attune is there in the moment, not just once a week.

03
Honest, not just soothing

Attune won't just validate you. It'll help you see your own patterns clearly — the kind of honest that's hard to find, harder to hear, and actually changes things.

04
Built for this dynamic specifically

Not a generic chatbot. Not a wellness app. Designed from the ground up for the anxious-avoidant push-pull — because generic tools don't cut it.

05
Private by design

Your conversations stay yours. No social features, no data sharing, no performance of healing for an audience.

06
Complement to therapy, not a replacement

Attune fills the 167 hours between sessions. If you're in therapy, it deepens the work. If not, it's a serious starting point.

How It Starts

Not another app.
A real companion.

Relational injuries need relational healing. But healing doesn't start with your partner — it starts with you being able to see what your behavior looks like from their side. That's what changes things.

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I didn't realise how much I was abandoning myself until Grace named it.

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You're not here because you're broken.
You're here because you're paying attention.
Knowing the pattern doesn't break it. Interrupting does.
Before you send it. Before you say it. Before you do it.

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Attune consists of an AI relationship companion, not a therapist. It does not provide clinical advice or crisis support. If you're in crisis, please contact a mental health helpline.